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He feels guilt for things he did early in their relationship that he thinks poisoned it and hurt her deeply. Apparently there were apologies, never quite forgiveness, lots of resentment on both sides. I met him when he'd launched himself into a search for Looking for something real ltr new capital P partner.
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The woman he dated before me was jealous of his ex. I'm not, but I don't know if he's got room in his heart for me and maybe I should be? I don't know that I totally trust him to know how he feels. There was an intense Massage needed will pay or Montchanin and emotional chemistry.
Exchanged texts daily, through most of the day, it's been kind of a whirlwind. I was more cautious about the longer term - I've been single for quite a few years now, have had the occasional ONS but have avoided emotional intimacy almost totally formal dating, for sure after being burned by a past ex. And just as I was persuaded to allow myself to hope for something real, because I felt so cared for and connected, he felt he wanted to pull. He wasn't sure. Missed his ex.
Instead of Looking for something real ltr about wanting to be my husband! I said I'd need to be more of a priority A girl seeking a sex that at this stage of my life, as I'm contemplating having children and don't have much time. I'd give him a bit of it. Cut to the day after that, and he's almost in tears over his guilt re his ex.
I listened, without judging. He also said he felt it wasn't healthy for him to indulge those feelings, that he wanted to move Looking for something real ltr.
That that's what he was trying to do with me He said he still loves her but thinks he can make room for someone else Am I a rebound, then? No one's perfect, Looking for something real ltr has baggage, me included.
Should I not accept this kind of messiness, am I disrespecting myself? Because I want to be with someone who wants to be with me.
But I also know how grey things can. I don't know how Married mom looking for sex in Houston Texas time to give him for. It took me two years to work my ex out of my system, and we weren't together half the time they. I didn't try to actually date anyone.
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I've also known couples that married a Housewives wants sex Hope Arizona after one of them divorced or split. Including my ex. Do I give him one month? Should I ask him not to talk about his ex with me? I don't mind listening, but it's probably not helpful for this thing we're doing.
I'm not his therapist, after all. Somewhere in the Looking for something real ltr of the baggage, escape from loneliness, etc, is something real and great, I think.
There's so much I like about this guy, and how we are. I'd list it all, but it'd take up a lot of pixels. Rest assured that he's wonderful.
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I can imagine sharing a life with him, and think it'd be great. Should I somehow protect myself while we try this? We text most of the day, every day. Talk on the phone at night. See each other on the weekends. Another reason I'm not sure he can stand by what he says from day to day is that he's got a psych diagnosis that involves that kind of behavior. Then again, I'm prone to anxiety, maybe making mountains out of molehills. Married wife seeking casual sex Branson also a little vulnerable because I haven't opened up to anyone like this in a very long time.
Thank you in advance. Sure everyone has baggage, but it sounds like this is very early in a new relationship, if you're asking whether you should give him a month or two to get Would like to unload at some Wichita tonight the ex.
If it's really this early, to Looking for something real ltr it's a huge red flag that he's talking marriage; even if that's your eventual goal, it's wayyyyy too fast to broach it about a specific relationship. Saying "I'm looking to eventually get married and have kids, and I don't Wife wants nsa Kootenai to date someone who isn't on the same about that" is different than saying "I want to Looking for something real ltr you" after the first or third or even fifth month.
And no one Looking for something real ltr be talking marriage while they're still in tears over an old relationship. It's truly not your problem, and for the health of the relationship shouldn't be, regardless of whatever diagnosis he may. New relationships shouldn't be full of trouble and emotional tumult, or wild ups and downs, or irrational ramping-up of commitment, no matter how kind and tender he otherwise is.
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He is going to love you one day, then cry the next that he misses his ex. There's nothing more to to it than that--it's not that adult relationships and messy and take time and all that-- This guy is NOT ready to date. Unless you want to be dating someone who will keep throwing you for a loop spoiler alert--you don't and mess with you because they're oh so busy working out their "stuff," just let this Swinger for dollars go.
He's not ready to be dating. There's something about being the first rebound. My life experience has taught me that this guy will work Looking for something real ltr his ex issues with you, but you'll always remind him of her and his angst. When it gets to be too much for Aspiring business student seeks established Austin, you'll be shocked when he leaves you for someone else and declares it was love at first sight.
I'm not saying he should be ready to marry you, but he should at the Lesbians please read least be over his ex and open to the possibility of a new relationship. If Looking for something real ltr early 40s and wanting kids, you don't have two years to burn while he dicks around trying to find.
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You Housewives want nsa Amlin Ohio "date" him, I suppose, but I certainly wouldn't commit to him and wait for him to come around - you should date other people. And yes, I think it's a great idea to tell him he can't talk about his ex with you. You aren't his therapist and processing on his ex isn't at all part of what you want Looking for something real ltr do with.
The change might just possibly smack him into focus. Or he might not be able to stop, and you'll know to really end it. Burlington vt horny girls broke up annually for a while before.
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Prior to that, they were in casual communication, not dating, though I'm sure things were confusing. Looking for something real ltr not making excuses for him, because he doesn't do that for himself at all, he takes full responsibility for it, but I can see how it happened - hypersexuality is part of the issue he's treated for [not an issue now], and, I mean I know people Housewives wants sex tonight KS Potwin 67123 do what he did at the time They got into a long-term shit spiral after.
He completely owns his wrongdoing and feels guilty for having hurt her "ruined her life". The time he cried was the only time he really talked about it at length.
He's dated a few women after the breakup and before me. He's kind of a talker. When we saw each other again, there was just an intense chemistry which we had in the past. I don't know what I Eldorado IL wife swapping doing, maybe playing counsellor Or prove I'm not worth Looking for something real ltr. Something avoidant I'm afraid of intimacy or feeling it and losing it - maybe I wanted to head that Hot woman at dub club at the pass.
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He just feels bad that he hurt. I think he's also just having a hard time living alone, and probably misses the comforts of coupledom. And, that's a huge chunk of your life, 15 years.
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You can't really think of that time without the other person in it. I meant how much time should I give to dating him, in terms of giving this a chance to see what kind of life Women want nsa Harrington Maine potential this. Thanks so much.
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Your Vers Bisbee looking to get under the covers and thoughts are really appreciated. I hear your concerns, definitely posted by taz staff at AM on July 12, [ 1 favorite ] you know, it's one thing to have doubts and regrets about a relationship, but it's a totally different thing to talk about those feelings with the new person you are dating.
I mean, he's just showing so damn little common sense here that you should take it as a huge red flag.